TNDL: “TO LOVE CHRIST IS TO OBEY HIM AND KEEP HIS SAYINGS OR COMMANDS. THEREFORE, IF YOU DON’T OBEY HIM BY KEEPING HIS COMMANDS, IT MEANS THAT YOU DON’T LOVE HIM. SEE JOHN 14:12-18.”

John 14:12-18 New King James Version (NKJV)
The Answered Prayer
12 “Most assuredly, I say to you, he who believes in Me, the works that I do he will do also; and greater works than these he will do, because I go to My Father. 13 And whatever you ask in My name, that I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. 14 If you [a]ask anything in My name, I will do it.
Jesus Promises Another Helper
15 “If you love Me, [b]keep My commandments. 16 And I will pray the Father, and He will give you another [c]Helper, that He may abide with you forever— 17 the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees Him nor knows Him; but you know Him, for He dwells with you and will be in you. 18 I will not leave you orphans; I will come to you.
Footnotes:
John 14:14 NU ask Me
John 14:15 NU you will keep
John 14:16 Comforter, Gr. Parakletos